….”What is the best bra?”…
We get asked this a lot at our fittings; even at times when we’re just chatting with friends.
Here’s the idea. There is no best bra.
It’s just like asking the best time to do something.
You don’t ask for the best time to do something, you’ll know when it’s time. What you’re actually feeling is readiness, courage, confidence, certainty – it’s how you feel from within you that matters. No one is supposed to tell you what or how to feel, right?
It’s the same for lingerie. There is no best bra – but there is how you want to feel and how the bra can best bring that feeling out in you.
Bras have come a long way since breastbags and the handkerchiefs with ribbons. They have evolved and adapted to the influence of fashion and sexual tastes of time. And speaking of sexual tastes, there are those who wear bras to feel sexy. So isn’t the feeling what it’s all about?
There are also women who wear bra to conform to societal norms. Then there are the ones who just want to keep the nipples from showing. If you are wearing bras on the inside as innerwear, then bras should be how they make you feel, not how sexy they look.
Many people get it wrong – they are being worn by the bras instead of them wearing the bras. What does that mean?
Have you seen a pair of boobs that is so awkwardly disproportionate to the body so much that the boobs look like they are screaming for help? Or boobs are pushed so high up that they look more like balloons than they are boobs?
If you’re feeling it, you are probably wearing what you think is the best bra.
Instead, ask yourself what do you want from wearing bra? If you are asking for the best bra, then what is it about the bra that makes you think it’s the best?
Or what do you want it for? For sex?
Then how about trying a pair of red lacy push up plunge bra? But what if you do not have the volume to create that sensual cleavage? Are you going to force yourself in and end up feeling uncomfortable? And then lose all the confidence and passion for sex?
What you really want to do is to find the right bra for the right occasion to feel at your best.
If you have to lose the bra to feel great about yourself, go ahead and lose it because that itself is your best bra.